Ask Mary Ann 516

Hello,

I’ve been watching shows such as Psychic Kids Children of the Paranormal
with Chip Coffey and other shows about psychics/mediums who can tell if
there are ghosts in houses or on land. However, now that you’ve cleared my
home and I’ve read your books, I have to wonder if those shows really help
solve the problems. On one episode of Psychic Kids, a mother whose child has
abilities and lots of ghosts in the house said “I’m a very tired mother, I’m
tired on all levels.” I have sympathy and empathy for that lady.  Do you
ever watch those shows and ask “Why don’t they help the ghosts move on?”
What are your thoughts about those shows? Do you think that more psychics
need to learn to send ghosts into the light?

Thank you,

Lisa

Hi Lisa,

It was really nice meeting you and clearing your home of earthbound spirits.
Isn’t it amazing how the house felt when you had spirits in it and then after they were removed? It is like day and night; it is that big of a difference.
I do not watch any of the paranormal or psychic shows on television for several reasons.

“Ghost Whisperer” is based on the kind of ghosts I see, but when the show started five years ago it was very hard for me to watch. I had to come to the realization that this is not a ghost documentary each Friday night, but entertainment! Each week you do learn a good lesson from Ghost Whisperer even if it is “Hollywoodized” as I call it. Each week Melinda does help the spirits to cross over.

The other shows on the subject, which you are one hundred percent correct, do not do that. Personally, I think they do more harm than good on two levels.

The family, whose house that they are in, is not having the problem solved; the ghost is still going to be there. In addition the ghost is thinking that they are going to help me cross over… and guess what, no they can not help.

The ghost could really be mean now to the family after the paranormal group leave and take all of their equipment with them. This is because they are still stuck! … Or they could follow someone home from the paranormal group.
It is a no-win situation either way.

Unless you can see, talk to and make the white light to release the earthbound spirit, I believe that these groups are walking on very thin ice for the homeowners and themselves.

So Lisa, these are my thoughts on this situation. I have cleaned up too many houses after the “ghost busters” have been there. Thank you for asking.

Best,
Mary Ann

Letter 2

Dear Mary Ann,

My name is William and I live in Aztec, NM. In the late 80s my older sister Carol killed her self. I have never really gotten over her death. We were so close. I just knew if there was a way to contact me that she would. I have been watching and praying for any clue or sign for years, but so far nothing. I miss her so. I don’t know just what or how you could help. But the pain in my heart is as strong now as it was 20 years ago. I still am not able to talk about her without almost bursting into tears. I guess if I knew for sure that she is ok, happy, maybe I could finally get past this. If some how you could get across to her and let her know, let her know that I love and miss her so.

Thank you,
William

Hi William,

I am so sorry about your sister Carol. The death of a sibling is hard when they are not very old and especially if it’s suicide. You must remember, people that die this way are not mentally well or they would not have done it.

If your sister passed younger than thirty years old, she probably did not cross over for many reasons, which can be unfinished business, guilt, or fear of retribution. However, in the past twenty years if a relative or close friend of hers has died, she could have crossed over with them.

You will know if she crossed over when you have a dream of her. If you have not had a dream of her but someone that you know has, that means that she has crossed over. If she has crossed over, she may feel that it would upset you if she came to you in a dream. When you finally dream of Carol you will be able to talk to her as if she was alive. Everyone can do this.

If you do not remember your dreams get an herb called mugwort. Make a small pouch of it and place it between your pillow and pillowcase, and in about three weeks you will start remembering your dreams.

You can find out more about mugwort on my web site www.maryannwinkowski.com <http://www.maryannwinkowski.com> .

Good dreaming!!

Mary Ann